2/26/09

Desiderata

I don't know if I have been hiding under a rock until now, but I was unfamiliar with this poem. A guy shared it in one of my classes and I just loved it. The poem is titled Desiderata by Max Ehrmann.

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible, without surrender,
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even to the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons;
they are vexatious to the spirit.

If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain or bitter,
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs,
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals,
and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love,
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment,
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be.
And whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life,
keep peace in your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.


I am reading two books right now for an article that I am writing that seem to go along with the theme of this poem. The first book, Positivity by Barbara Freidrickson, is great! I am really enjoying it. It is explaining the scientific research regarding positivity. Research about emotions had been focused on negativity - like depression, emotional disorders, etc. So now scientists are switching gears to studying positivity. This book is about that. The second book is Happier by Tal Ben-Shahar. I haven't read much of this one yet, but I bet it'll be good too.

1 comment:

The Slagleys said...

I thought this would be the easiest form of communication...
I just know that Blake has gone 5 or 6 hours without eating at night, so the first night I just told myself that I would not go in before it had been 6 hours. To tell you the truth, I have no idea how long he cried each time- that is where the earplugs came in handy. My doctor made me feel much better about it too because she reminded me that around 4 months, they are NOT hungry in the middle of the night, they are waking up out of habit. It is just a matter of learning how to soothe themselves, and they learn by crying it out. Some people go in after a certain period of time over and over again, but we found with Kate that it is better to just not go in until you need to feed them. It worked with Kate and seems to be working with Blake, so I pray it will work for you guys too!